Dating advice for introverted guys
Even though I am 36, most of the people I meet would think that I am only 26.Unfortunately, I have been through all kinds of online dates in the last two and a half years.His thought process is most likely, “Well, I wasted this much time with her…might as well cash in on the obligatory third date sex.” My point here is that if you want to win with this guy (or men in general), you have to view yourself as a prize to be won as a whole. You need to see yourself as the proverbial Goddess on Earth, a spectacle to behold…It sounds like you want your relationship with the guy to progress and you read somewhere that guys lose interest after sex, and now you’re freaking out because of receiving either bad advice, or misconstruing the advice you got. Think about it – do you honestly think that men choose a woman for their one exclusive relationship just for sex?Of all the sex with all the women out there they could be having – do you really think it’s just about sex for a man to make his choice?I don’t know what is going on and why I’m lacking luck in finding Mr. I am educated, refined, and a self made millionaire by age 34. Many men, women, elderly, and children of all ages have told me so.
People are entranced and captivated by someone who has an air of excitement, adventure and pleasure to them.
CEOs, doctors, lawyers, hedge fund mangers, business owners, professional athletes, actors, etc… But right behind my good traits are a series of bad traits.
When I am not interested in them, they work for the relationship day and night. Anyone reading this blog can see that: The flip side of being bright is being opinionated.
So really, since it’s inevitable, the real concern is finding the “something more” that goes beyond just the sex. Listen, when you inspire a man to see you as a confident, fulfilled woman with plenty to offer other than physical pleasure, he doesn’t treat you like an option. When you have the mentality that you have one bargaining chip (sex) and that you should hold out because it will magically generate interest, you’re viewing sex as your one and only asset.
If a guy isn’t all that into you, but knows you’ll give it up on date #3, he’ll stick around long enough to get some booty then leave.