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Sugar-coated and sweet — it’s how we love to hear advice and criticism.
Getting the truth straight up makes us uncomfortable. It forces us to see parts of ourselves that need to be improved or changed completely. Some of the most important lessons I’ve learned were not what I wanted to hear, but what I needed to hear.
So I analyzed it with my friends to make sure I wasn't crazy." —Jason, 31, architect "I dated a girl once who turned out to be a stripper with two kids. I remember an ex coming over because she was upset and had just broken up with some guy.
We hadn't spoken for eight months, and we wound up ripping each other's clothes off. I thought she was sad over me, so I tried to console her.
The shit hit the fan when I called up drunk at 4 a.m. Finally, I stopped." —Sean, 25, chef "I knew my ex was living with a new guy, and one night at 2 a.m., I decided to confront them.
That stage can be harder than the actual breaking-up part."—Shane, 35, photographer "Frankly, if I dump a girl, it's because I have someone else waiting in the wings.
So I'm a happy guy."—Geoffrey "I act like a typical male idiot and celebrate my freedom by partying.
Basically, I feel like a new person after the breakup because I'm free of this ball-and-chain.
We also got the straight-up facts on how men react when you do the dumping — and the heinous, pathetic ways they try to move on...
Guys' Ugly Bag of Breakup Tricks"When I'm over a girl, I try to annoy her into dumping me. Or I'll pull away from sex and say my workload is stacking up. That way I don't have to feel bad about hurting her feelings."—Sam, 24, database consultant"If my exact reason for breaking up is bad — say, because she's not as good-looking as I'd like her to be — I'll say, 'The spark's just not there.' I'd feel too guilty if something I said made her go out and get a nose job or lipo."—Wesley, 30, Web designer "I always break up over e-mail, so I don't get yelled at.