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To illustrate what I mean: The answer to the question, “Why does the guy who doesn’t appear to care as much about the girl get the girl?
” is simple: The nice guy cares too much, too soon.
I'm the great catch, but feel like I'm the loser. Nice Guys Finish Last " Dear Nice Guy, It just so happens that I wrote an article for Yahoo! Here it is: Are you a nice guy who has always wondered why the cocky arrogant guy - - the one who barely appears interested in the girl - - is usually the one who gets the girl?
I'm kind, and I am so sick of hearing "really such a nice guy, BUT...."!
Women like to “fix men.” A nice guy doesn’t need any taming. His vanity is all at once angering and intoxicating.
The thing is, while we’re constantly on the lookout for that super sweet, caring guy who will make a great companion, we’re actually attracted to the guy who ignites passion within us. There’s just something so satisfying about taking the jerk home from the bar who’s spent most of the night intellectually challenging you in a heated verbal debate. This nice guy stereotype contends that women often claim they want a nice guy, a man who is sweet, kind and sensitive, and yet, when it comes down to it, she rejects this man for one with “other salient characteristics” like a hot body or an ultra strong personality.
He’s so sweet and he’s always there for me, but I only like him as a friend.” Or, “He’s such a good guy -- kind; thoughtful, generous, honest, loyal – but there’s no chemistry.
He just doesn’t turn me on.” Sadly, I hear it all the time. Nice Guy, you cannot bore a woman into feeling attracted to you or into wanting to date you.
We choose assh*les because of the danger factor involved in dating guys who are strong and conceited.
We know they’re wrong for us, they’ll never treat us the way we think we deserve to be treated, and instead of running for the hills, we jump on for the ride. No woman wants to be with a man who doesn’t know how to assert himself.
Most women claim to want the guy who is sensitive, emotionally fluent and intimate. We are literally, scientifically geared to want assh*les.