Red flags on dating men
So don’t feel too triumphant yet, because what goes around comes around, This economy is rough enough, no one needs extra or unnecessary baggage in the form of a grown man who one day could very well end up sitting on your couch all day and night.Or even worse, every time you two go out to dinner you get hit with the “Baby, you got me? He’s manipulative Love can make you extremely vulnerable because you are entrusting your heart to another person.It’s not her, it’s you Some girls are under the impression they never do anything wrong.Anytime a girl like this gets upset or has trouble in her relationship she’ll immediately start pointing the finger.That’s just how he’s wired, and as the saying goes, how you got him could be how you lose him.And if that doesn’t grab your attention then karma sure will. Is he being fired for disciplinary reasons because he can’t seem to follow the rules or shows himself to be irresponsible?She’ll blame everyone around her for her problems and never accept any personal responsibility for what happens in her life.
If you’re noticing that this new guy has the ability to go from 0 – 10 in a matter of seconds or frequently releases his frustration by punching something or cursing out anybody that gets in his way, you may want to consider getting out of the way, because he could very well take that He cheated with or left his ex for you Girl, if he had a woman when you emerged on the scene and he left ‘ol girl for you, chances are your relationship with this dude is as good as doomed. Peep game, if he’ll cheat with you, he’ll cheat on you and if he left her for you, he’ll be leaving you for someone else.He was always this way, he’s just finally showing you who he really is.As women when we first meet a man, out of eagerness, naivete and sometimes low-key desperation, we overlook major flaws and red flags just for the sake of being coupled up.He’s inconsistent Have you noticed that this new guy is severely inconsistent with just about everything in his life?Does he frequently speak of switching jobs, changing banks, and moving after short periods of time? While there is nothing wrong with appreciating variety, this type of inconsistency can also come off very He has a ridiculous temper All right, we’re all human and we all get angry at one point or another, it’s natural.
I am a firm believer in that saying by Maya Angelou that says “When people show you who they are believe them the first time.” This philosophy should be applied to all aspects of life; however, this should be a golden rule for women who are in the dating game.